The family courts have sent my son 50/50 to his dad's. His Dad is very aggressive. DS frightened of him. Court have said that exDH must allow DS to phone me if he requests (but did not agree DS should have his own mobile phone. DS was aged 8 at the time; he's now 10) But of course exDH always refuses to allow DS to phone me. The last time he allowed him to phone me during his contact period at his Dad's was early 2012.
I dont; know how to deal with this as I obviously can't prove that he refuses to allow DS to phone. DS would be too frightened to let on to anyone that he wasn't allowed to phone. DS spends a lot of energy trying to not let folks know how it is for him at his Dad's. Hence telling CAFCASS it was "fine" I am wondering if I just accept a shit situation and wait for DS to become a teenager and stand up to his dad. Or do I try to get the court order enforced somehow, Or do I sneak a mobile into DS's bag for him so he can call if things get really bad. Would the school be able to step in and insist he should be allowed a mobile? They are aware of the difficulties with his Dad, aggression etc. I just want DS to have a way of contacting me if things get bad.
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barkingtree · 16/05/2016 18:55
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