Hi,my Dd2 has always put up a fight about going to her dads,it has broken
my heart every time I've had to send her off crying and screaming trying to
cling to me.
I've come to the end of the line so a few weeks ago I told ex I wasn't doing it
anymore,she either goes willingly or she doesn't go.
I said if she didn't go he could come to see her whenever he wanted,phone
her,even come on days out.
He's having none of it,hasn't seen her in just over two weeks,she has asked
to phone him twice,so we have and I saw him today(she didn't notice him) I
took her over to see him,she said a few words then told him to "go away".
He said"no.i was here,you came over to me" so we carried on.
I understand how upsetting it must be for my ex when she doesn't want to
go with him and especially being told to "go away" but am I wrong to be
thinking,he's the adult and should be giving her the time to come around but
come to see her,spend time with her,phone her etc so he's a constant in her
life,not just stop seeing her just because she's not being made to go with him.
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Forcing DD age 3 to go with her dad
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Cluesue · 26/08/2015 21:16
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