dd is always encouraged to be honest with me and i usually can take it - i'd rather she felt she could tell me everything.
it was her birthday and she was with me, opened her presents and then (pretty much at the time of her birth, she's 8) announced now that she wanted to go to her dad's and didnt want to spend the rest of the afternoon with me. I was really upset. Her dad was out (actually said 'you cannot bring her back before 3pm').
tonight she has returned home. she kept going on about dad and how she wants photos of dad by her bed which i have in the past accommodated. but i got quite upset and took one of the photos of the 3 of us on her 1st birthday and binned it. she obviously got upset. i am a complete bitch, and feel as if all that trust and relationship that i have with dd has been tarnished by my own pettiness and emotions.
i did print off another photo for her and apologised. she is asleep now.
i am such a horrible person sometimes.
usually i can keep it all in, in fact it's quite amicable with xp and i. but i feel as if i do everything for her, and she takes me for granted.
she takes it for granted that i will be there to sort out her uniform, play dates, school crap, birthday parties, activities, medical appointments...
she's not spoilt or unkind, just takes it for granted that i will always be there to sort everything out but doesn't want to celebrate the good times with me.
not really sure where i am going with this post and i guess just wanted to share my pettiness, upset. but i feel shit about the way that i was so horrid to her, yet at the same time i am so fed up and upset with her taking me for granted. surely i am not the only person that feels as if they are taken for granted. i really am not usually this petty, but feel so so awful.
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I feel that dd really takes me for granted and I've been mean to her because of it
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moveon · 10/03/2015 20:25
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