She's four. He lives 200 miles away and so rarely sees her or has her overnight. When he did live nearby he had her pretty much EOW but only once for 2 nights. Over half term she stayed at his for 3 nights.
He's been talking about booking a holiday in France and he told her about it over half term. Not sure she understood how long it would be for though. He sent a text earlier saying he would be booking the holiday next week but he's worried that she won't want to be away from me for that long. He's right :( I've just talked to her about it and her face said it all. The idea of being away from home for 7 sleeps really worried her. I'm sure when he first mentioned it to me it wasn't going to be a full week but it's typical of him for things like that to change.
I'm dreading telling him, partly because I know he'll be hurt and disappointed and partly because he'll start accusing me of trying to turn her against him (I have a very strict policy of fully supporting their relationship with no bad-mouthing). There's no court order, so presumably I don't have to make her go. Tbh I don't want to be without her for a whole week, it's too long for both of us (although I do realise that this isn't about me!)
WWYD?
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DD doesn't want to go on holiday with her Dad. I don't have to make her do I?
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DevonFolk · 07/03/2015 19:22
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