I work shifts. I don't live too far from my ex but when I work I stay with family as they do all my child care. My ex only wants our dd every other Saturday despite me having asked in the past if he'd see her more he's refused.
On some weekends it falls that I'm about 45 min drive away with my family because I'm working so I ask ex to pick dd up from there but he refuses saying he can't travel to get her.
He says I have to sort this out.
It doesn't happen every weekend that we are away and I can't see why he can't pick her up. I don't know what he wants me to do.
I've suggested me meeting him halfway (which I don't really want to do seeing as I'm supposed to be resting after my night shift but if it means she sees him I'd do it)
He still refuses.
Am I being totally unreasonable? What will he do when we move permanently about an hour away. Not see her ever unless I do all the driving. He's got two vehicles. He doesn't pay us maintenance. I don't ask him for anything and yet he is still cross.
Then he says to me he misses dd and it's not fair on him or her he doesn't see her when I'm working away (45 minute drive) even though I want him to have her.
I hate him and I'm stumped.
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Dad won't pick dd up for his weekend
GEM33 · 03/03/2015 21:39
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