I just don?t know what to do or think or what I have done wrong? I am a single mum who has a ds (2.7). He sees his Dad every other weekend from Friday til Sunday and the interim Friday for the day. Additionally he is/will have approx. 4 weeks a year (a week at a time) with him. If ever his Dad has a problem with the days or arrangements I make sure things are changed round because my ds adores his Dad and it is important to my ds. (although it kills me inside). We have just come back from a couple of days away with some friends and my ds had the best time (as did I as this was my first time away with him). However once we got home he said ?not Mummy?. When I said what is not Mummy he said that he didn?t love Mummy, only Daddy.?. I am heartbroken, I do everything for/with him even to my own detriment (i.e. letting him go for those weekends/weeks). We haven?t had any problems, he gets loads of hugs, love and positive reinforcement. What on earth am I doing wrong. I know they can go through phases of this but I thought it was a few years a way yet. He has, from about 16 months old tended to be a Daddy?s boy and sometimes doesn?t even seem happy to see me after a weekend. I am just so upset and can?t stop crying (away from ds). I didn?t react when he said it, but just can?t work out where this came from/what caused it? Does anyone have any ideas/advice/wine???????? Also put this on parenting board.
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