just that really. its never simple cos of dh's shifts, and unexpected things that come up such as his training days, now one of his family members funeral. its not that i don't have compassion - i do, and i am taking dd so that he can get to the funeral. but he is now on about not taking her the night before because they will be making sandwiches in the house, and when he cancels contact with her he NEVER re-arranges it for a different day - its just cancelled. its so draining. i sent the text.... so are you planning to see her at a different time so she doesn't lose the time with you.... and as usual no response while he thinks of an excuse why he can't. so fed up. yes i know he has a lot on, but its just so draining to be constantly dealing with this - i wish it was just set in stone and thats that. but i know lifes not like that. of course this all coincides with the ONE night out i have planned...pretty much the first time ive been properly out in like 3 years lol.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Use our Single Parent forum to speak to other parents raising a child alone.
Lone parents
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.