I am completely at my wits end, tonight my ex and father of my child told me that everything he said to me when we were together was a lie. He left me when I was 3 months pregnant, he went from 'I love you' to silence and I did and still do absolutely everything for our daughter with no help from him at all. He broke my heart and it has taken a long time to be ok again.
I still loved him up until my daughter was about 9 months old. I moved to Lancing to be closer and so he would have a good relationship with his child. This is my biggest regret. I know I should've moved closer to my family in Milton Keynes now.
He has now turned his family and friends against me and I am alone. So alone I cry all the time, I struggle by and it is starting to affect my daughter. I need to move closer to my Mum to have some support, I can't stay here, if I do I honestly don't think I will be here in a years' time.
I suffered PND because of being so alone, I got better and have been off anti depressants for 9 months. I have good days and bad but do workshops and talking therapy to help myself.
I need some advice on how I can move. I am on housing benefit as I was made redundant, I have no savings and would really struggle to get enough money together for a deposit let alone the costs of moving vans and suchlike. The council say I am not in need enough (despite having letters from doctors and health visitors) and to private rent I would need a guarantor earning 3 times the annual rent (which I don't have) pass a credit check (which I won't) and have a reference from my landlord (my exes family - not going to happen)
It seems my only option is to deliberately make myself homeless and get kicked out then apply for council help because I am homeless.
I don't know where I would put my furniture or how I would transport it from one place to another or pay for it to be in storage.
I have got to the point where I am so low because I am alone that I need to move for my health and the wellbeing of my daughter. Why is there no help??
Any advice would be much appreciated...
Amy x
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ajs2013 · 14/11/2013 20:12
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