I am 33 weeks preg, have a 3 yr old ds and am desperate to get out of my marriage. Without going into detail, OH has had a drinking problem for years - he's now trying (at last) to make things work, but its just made me realise there's nothing he can do now - I don't love him anymore and feel tense and stressed whenever he's around (am worried about the impact this having on DS and bump), and am waiting for the next arguement.
2 questions - how can I get him to leave? He will be angry and upset when I tell him (we've been together 16 years) and I'm 99.9% sure he'll refuse to go, especially as he is trying to be 'good' now. This will make living together even more stressful than it is now. We have a joint mortgage and he is not 'abusive'. I have nowhere I can go with DS.
If I can get him to leave, can I get help with mortgage payments if I'm not on benefits? I work PT (about to start mat leave). My Mum said she may be able to lend me ££s to buy him out of the mortgage, but how do I figure out how much this will cost?
REALLY need to know what my options are so I can get as far out of this as poss before the baby comes :((
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Prawncat · 17/09/2013 11:20
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