Posting in behalf of my sil, who has recently become a lp. Her xdp had been seeing ow for sometime, and when sil found out she left xdp. Xdp remains in the family home, whilst sil has found lovely home for her and dd (5yrs). Xdp sees dd once a week overnight, the rest of the week he phones when he remembers.
Anyhow backstory over....
Last night xdp rang to speak to dd. dd told xdp that she was allowed to stay that night at xdp. As convo was in speaker phone sil reminded both that as it was a school night and dd ready for bed (6.50ish at this time) it wasn't possible for dd to go to her dads. Xdp kept saying its up to mummy.
When the conversation was finished dd said to her mum 'you took daddy away from me'. Sil naturally very upset by this remark, but didn't make Any fuss of it last night. If dd says this again what you recommend saying in response to dd?
Thanks for reading and helping me help sil
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'You took me away from daddy' - how to respond?
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Runwayqueen · 12/09/2013 11:06
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