Apologies if I am not following the proper etiquette but this is my first ever post here.
Quick summary of my situation: My wife and I have recently separated, she has gone to live with her mum for the time being as it's unclear whether the separation will be temporary or more permanent. In comparison to how the house felt like while she was here at times, I think it's for the best right now but I hold out hope that we might be able to resolve things through counselling. I'm not convinced my wife shares the same thoughts however, but we will see.
We bought a house about 3 months ago. About 2 months ago I discovered she was having an affair and then we separated about 2 weeks ago. She's living with her mother on the other side of the city and my daughter lives with me most of the time.
I'm interested in trying to manage the situation as well as possible so that my daughter does not feel too affected by the changes in circumstances. My wife and I came to the arrangement that on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays X (my daughter) stays with me. On Tuesdays and Thursdays X's grandmother picks her up from school and she stays with them. The weekends have tended to be a mixture depending on what the situation is.
If anything, since the separation it means X now sees more of her mother that she would have before as my wife used to leave for work before X woke and got home well after X had gone to sleep and so it's probably a very positive thing in this way.
Are there any specific pieces of advice people would give in terms of dealing with the separation as well as possible for the sake of the little one?
(Sorry if it's too long - I've deleted whole chunks to make it more readable as it is!)
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aztec · 11/09/2013 08:10
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