Ok,
So I have been really really nice to the ex (even though he makes sick, and as background I dumped him and no it wasnt to run off with anyone else). For example;
- he has been having double the contact time we agreed as I am nice
- when we go out as a family, I pay for him e.g. London Aquarium tickets, lunches etc (mainly because he is a tightwad and otherwise my DD would never see anything)
- I am moving closer to him so that DD contact visits are easier for her and she won't have so long to travel
and he goes and cuts his funding for her in half without telling me at all....
It seems the nicer I am (for my daughters sake) the more he takes me for a fool.
I loathe him and must stop being nice to him as he is an arse (Repeat as mantra)
It seems that being nice and friendly and acting like an adult for the sake of my beautiful DD just turns him into a F4J wanker.
Rant over, I turn up my whale music very very loudly.