Are there any Aussie mumsnetters who have returned to Australia after an extended period living in the UK? I'd love to pick your brains over my situation and the dilemma I have over returning home.
Background - DH and I are both Aussies who have lived in the UK for 8 years. We came over as backpackers, loved the travel opportunities and lifestyle and decided to stay. We both had good jobs, we bought a house and I would describe our life as comfortable. We now have 2 DCs (DD 3 years & DS 4 months).
For the past couple of years (since having DD really) I have been pining to return to Sydney. For family reasons mostly, I miss everyone and want my kids to grow up around their extended family. And I do find life in London with two small kids a struggle, especially over winter.
DH is not so keen, he loves his job and is not family orientated like I am. Whenever I bring up the subject of going back he recites a long list of obstacles... we've got to sell the house, we need to save more money before we go, it will be difficult for him to get a comparable job....
He also thinks that I am romanticising the whole idea of living back in Sydney and that things won't necessarily be any easier than they are here with small children.
I guess I'm looking to hear from anyone who has returned to live in Australia and what your experience was. Did you find it hard to adjust to life back in Oz? Is there ever a "right time" to go back?
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MrsMangle · 24/11/2009 20:00
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