I have a (hopefully career enhancing, if not fun anyway) chance to move to the Netherlands for a year. I love working in other countries, and have so far taken dd (5) to Europe and South America for consecutive summers with my job. However, this move is for a year. I have spoken to the school, and they say that her friendships are not cemented enough for it to be a problem (she is a child with a lot of friends as opposed to a few very close friends), and she should be able to get a place on our return. There are three things however that really concern me. 1. dp has to stay in England for his job. 2. dd may not get a place at her school again if someone fills hers while we are away (we have to re-apply as soon as we set off), 3. It may be a huge emotional upheaval for both of us and too much. Has anyone every done this?
Dp and I will sort out seeing each other-we are both up at 5/6am with work anyway, and I get home 4 hours before him some days, and he gets home 2 hours before me on others, so our quality time together is at the weekends. He can come out every second weekend, and we can come home every second weekend, so it would be ok. The rest of it is unchartered territory though and scares me!
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Have the chance to move to the Netherlands for a year-is this good or bad?
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Pawslikepaddington · 26/10/2009 07:43
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