So DH are planning (assuming we get 189 visa) to move to Perth, Australia mid 2018.
However an opportunity has arisen with DH's work who are expanding overseas. They want him (with family obvs) to move to Bangkok for 6-12 months (we will push for 6) followed by, possibly, a stint in Melbourne for a minimum of 12 months. DH may be able to move with company to Perth after this but if not, he can quit and we would move anyway.
We have a 2 yr old DS and I'm pregnant, due in Feb. We've already said we wouldn't consider leaving UK until DD1 is at least 6 months old (i.e. about Sep 17) which they seem OK with. Still to negotiate package but we'll assume they will not see us short.
I had planned a nice year off on maternity leave with a view to put Perth plans into action after that. I'm really anxious about taking a 6 month old overseas to Bangkok (I have been before but in my backpacking days...) and just in general all the moving around to cities that were never really on my radar before. We have a nice life here but want a warmer more outdoor lifestyle and I'm worried that neither Bangkok or Melbourne (which has quite an unpredictable climate) won't offer that and we'll feel worse off than here with no friends or support network (we have friends in Perth).
It's a great opportunity for DH though and could be an exciting adventure but I'm a born worrier and I can't get my head around changing our plans to this extent. I've travelled a lot in my younger days so I'm open the different cultures etc but so much more to think about with very young children in tow.....WWYD?
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Heatherbell1978 · 21/11/2016 18:50
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