Mum has secondary breast cancer. It's mainly in her bones and seems to be spreading through them very rapidly - the latest scan of her spine made her consultant say that it was riddled with cancer, that it was affecting the marrow and that he was uncertain that there was any point to pallative chemotherapy (i.e. she was too far gone to prolong life).
But, her main symptom is pain. That's now under control (thank you modern medicine). What's happening is day by day I can kind of see her just getting weaker. Going up a step. Her handwriting.
we are getting an awful lot of hinting and head tilting that this is the end and mum does seem dimished (I'm sorry if I seem cold here I promise I'm finding hard )but mum doesn't actually seem sick. Is this normal? Can I hope that things stay this easy for her?
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Life-limiting illness
Is this normal?
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LadyRainicorn · 23/02/2015 18:05
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