Hallo everyone,am new to this site and I've been reading a few threads and have found it really helpful:) So i have a question: I have an 11 year old boy who I recently came out to. I have always had a rough hard journey coming out to him as I got different types of pressure from everyone around me. So over the Christmas holiday I unexpectedly came out to him and explained to him that my best friend that he adores is actually my girlfriend and we are in love. Well I have always taught him theres nothing wrong with being gay and being happy is all that matters and without a doubt he knew that I was happy and she loves me. What worries me is kids in school, he said to me he will not let any of his friends know as they would make fun of him. I totally understand this and know where his fears come from. I have tried to explain and tell him not to worry what others think, and I feel bad that he doesn't address it directly. Of late he's been getting into so much trouble in school, home and even the police today for swearing on the bus ride home. His behaviour and attitude has become so appalling to the point I feel hopeless. I have tried talking to him and he will make promises to change but still no change. He has also started developing an attitude with my partner and myself, but is still very loving towards her. I have thought maybe I should try connect with other LGBT families to make our circle more versatile. It doesn't help that my family is not very accepting. My friends with children are supportive, but don't necessary grasp the extra layer of complexity being a gay parent adds. I'm note quite sure what I'm trying to ask.......I suppose I would like to know if anyone has been through a similar situation and has some pearls of wisdom or advice to offer. I'd also be interested to find out about any LGBT friendly family events, groups, communities, schools anyone might recommend,and more LGBT friends would help too i think.
Thanks:)
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cece2016 · 13/04/2016 23:20
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