I hope somebody can help shed some light on this.
I have a dear German friend who moved to the Manchester area ~10 years ago. She married a local man and they had a son who is now 8.
He beat her and hurt her and somehow she got him to move out and he ran back to his mum. Needless to say he stopped paying the bills and she was unable to manage, the bank foreclosed on the house - but thankfully because the market was booming she didn't end up owing any money.
She left Manchester when her son was 3 - she had nothing to stay in the UK for and whilst he was agreeing to the divorce he was still threatening to physically hurt her.
She now lives in Belgium with her new husband and she flies to the UK with her son for school holidays, drops him off at Manchester and flies straight home. He has never once flown to Belgium or paid for a flight.
He is now suing her in a UK court demanding more access to his son and money(!), however he has never paid a single bean towards maintenance.
She is very upset by this, especially as she has to report to a Belgian police station to discover what the "charges" are. She is resigned to going to court and at this stage says she just doesn't care because she has nothing to lose.
Doe she have any rights to claim maintenance - she knows obviously she'll never see a penny of it - but perhaps it'll give her a stick to beat him with. She's a bit too "nice" and probably never envisaged she had any rights.
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German mum, English dad, no maintenance, threats with court
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skihorse · 03/12/2009 09:52
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