I will try and keep this short and sweet but I need some advice....
Have a quite dependent toxic relationship with my mother (abusive parents divorced after 30 years) and they sold marital home. Father got some but mum the bulk- both didn't really work much. I paid mortgage several times and other bills to help..
When house was sold each sibling got some money (nominal) but due to the things I had done and help given including moving her lock stock she offered to pay some money toward our extension. We said no (a lot) but she wanted to help. I insisted on writing on paper that when I had some money I would give it back (two lines on scrap paper)
I never saw the money it was paid into my partners account who gave it to the builder.
Less than three weeks later whilst on a cruise she 'fell out' with me and began sending letters to the house and where we both work demanding her money.
We have no issue with the fact we owe it. I am not trying to Say we don't but yesterday I came home from work and there were county court papers on the mat. My partner has the same.
I am uncertain how to proceed.
Do I a. Just not contest and offer some money monthly.... I have been paying it Back weekly something she failed to tell anyone. I also have proof. What happens if she refuses what I offer?
B. Contest it as I haven't done anything and offer money monthly. She wants her day in court my brother told me. But to what ends? I live in a rented house with children and my partner is mortgaged up to the hilt.
We would just get a loan but we used all avaiable funds for building....
I just need some advice. Solicitor wants £2oo to even look at paperwork and it needs to go back. I just don't know what to do....
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wannabestressfree · 22/01/2016 06:28
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