Can I make a statement to the police without pressing charges?
It's a long story but I've finally come away from my abusive ex. He's received a harrasment warning from the police and on Friday I sent off court papers for a non molestation order for me and my child.
Ex dodged the police all week and they managed to get hold of him via the phone. They rang me to tell me they'd spoke to him and that he'd made an appointment to see them on Wednesday
I'm very frightened he's going to try and get me arrested.
In October he attacked me while I had our 9 month old baby in my arms. I'd managed to get up and put the baby on the couch, I was that frightened I picked up the closest item to me to defen myself -- it was an ashtray. I turned around and he was right behind me so I hit him in the face with it. It was only once and it was purely to defend myself.
But now I'm really worried he's going to try and get me arrested for it. And I know with the police even though they know our history they'll be obliged to arrest me.
Is it possible for me to make a statement to the police today but not press charges? I just want to do it purely to protect myself because thy will then see his as a counter complait and hopefully leave me alone.
I don't want go press charges because I don't want to have to go to court. I've had to have my locks changed, alarms on my windows and I'm having a panic alarm fitted in my house. I'm very tired and I just don't want anymore hassle.
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TryToBePositive · 12/01/2016 13:03
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