This is for my friend who is not (currently!) a mumsnetter! I haven't been through a separation but have read so much good advice over the years from people on here that I thought perhaps there could be some help for her.
Friend's DH wants to separate from her. He's German, she's British. They were married in Germany and have 3 young children (all born in Germany). They live in the Middle East.
He has moved out of the house that they are renting. Currently they both plan on staying in the country.
Has anybody been through this? What does she need to do? I've mentioned the Hague Convention about marriage to confirm that German marriage law applies to them. To check about whether she needs his permission to leave with the children at any time or risk being accused of kidnapping.
When he moved out he took the file that contained ALL their papers: birth certificates (hers and the children), rental contract etc. The whole lot, but she has their UK passports. She asked why he took it and he said he needed some papers for the children's German passports...
If they're going to divorce, can she file for divorce in the UK? Or would she have to do it in Germany..or where they now are?! Is it better if she files it first or if he does?!!
Can anybody give some useful Mumsnet advice! Obviously a lawyer will need to be involved at some point, but it's all so new that it would be helpful if anybody had an idea of what she needs to do to start.
*All the info is slightly altered so she's not traceable!
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friendafar · 02/01/2016 21:30
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