My husband has been paying maintenance for several years for a child he has no contact with (out of choice) a result of a one night stand just before we met.
The parent and her family who are respectable types insisted he was the father, and being a kind and decent bloke he has paid duly for years without question and he never demanded a DNS test.
The parent recently contacted us to advise my husband is not the Father so she won't be demanding further money.
We are devastated because we have striven to pay for ivf to have a child of our own and having had one child we have had only been able to afford one because of the maintenance and so my husband had the snip and my frozen eggs were destroyed. I've had to work so hard to keep things together and our small roof over our head and now I feel we've been defrauded of thousands.
This woman says she can't pay the money back. When the dust settles what should our next steps be. I'm devastated how this woman's lies have affected our life. Thanks for any replies.
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frogsfromrumrah · 23/07/2015 07:46
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