Probably the wrong place to post but have been a single dad since January last year kids lived with me since april (1 son, 1 stepdaughter). Social been involved with stepdaughter as after 1 month if shes not with a biological parent (real dads got no contact etc) they have to be involved. reports come through basically I've had accusations of domestic abuse etc to try and back her story up for dumping the two kids on me etc, socials report has stated kids should remain with me and I have to get legal rights over step daughter (mums got issues with depression possibly manic depression, cannot cope with kids on her own, potential alcohol problems etc), socials recommended I go through court for residency etc as I've provided stability to the two children for over a year now (stepdaughters nearly 5 and sons just turned 3), since the breakup mums had a tendancy to disappear up to 100 miles away for a few months come back and do it again, latest time shes come back with a new bf, similar thing happened with the eldest 'dad' who was on birth certificate etc but wasn't really dad court occurred etc and kids went back to mum (I'd supported her through this as she was pregnant with my son). All I'm wanting to do is provide a stable environment for the kids, I've not been in a relationship since her as I'm struggling to balance work and these two but I am in a bit of a qunadrynow as until I get legal help (mum and her mum aren't helping out at all now after social report came through) I'm having to reduce working hours etc because I cannot legally provide childcare for my stepdaughter (which the exes mum was doing). I feel like I'm trapped between a bit of a proverbial rock and a hard place and I'm worried whats gonna happen next with these two. Anyone been in a similar situation or can give me advice would be appreciated :)
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