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Not sure whether this belongs in legal, money or even relationships? Basically, I am wondering if anyone else has been in the same situation as me and can advise on what is the best/fairest option. STBX is moving out shortly and leaving me and DC living in the house, hopefully until DC2 is 18. I can afford to pay the mortgage which is approx £1K per month and he will be renting a much smaller flat for a similar amount. The DC will be here pretty much full time, DC1 says he won't go to XP's flat at all and he is mid-teens so presumably no one would enforce contact so in that sense it's not unfair I have more space for the same cost.
We are not married and own 50% each as tenants in common, my question is would there be any point in taking the mortgage into my name entirely if the lender would let me? I can't buy XP out entirely as we have about 80% equity in the house due to crazy London prices. But obviously I will be paying the mortgage entirely myself and making any structural repairs etc to the house so if I took his name off the mortgage would it be fair to suggest changing the title deeds so I owned a higher share of the property? XP has debt problems so wouldn't be looking to buy but might be wanting to be freed of any responsibility for paying the mortgage since he won't be living here.
The other question is, the mortgage will be paid off shortly after DC2 is 18 so looking ahead what would be the fair thing to do then if I had no housing costs and he obviously still had rent to pay? I've heard people say that the person living in the house should pay occupational rent to the one who has left but that seems to go along with them paying half the mortgage after they leave so not sure if it applies in our case?
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staying in house after split with DC, best option re mortgage?
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soontobesolo · 28/02/2015 00:26
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