Mum is terminally ill, will hopefully be coming home for last few weeks. Her long term partner wants to marry her very soon. He has become increasingly controlling - trying to stop access to her. Holding it over people (i.e. I can kick you out if i want to... not that i will but i can because i'm her next of kin), trying to manipulate her into leaving him specific things. She doesn't see this and we are trying to protect her from family issues as much as possible. He isn't always like this, although has always been entirely pig headed and frankly, a little odd. She wants to leave him absolutely nothing and for everything to go to her children. She said that she doesn't mind him staying in her house for a little while after she's gone. I'm scared. He has becoming increasingly needy and controlling with her, telling people he'll be the only one there when she dies etc. She doesn't want this but he has been trying to do things 'for her own good' when she is unable to make her own decisions. Always thinks he is right etc. Putting us in a position where we can't disagree with him or he will have us removed. If they marry, he will automatically inherit half of her house, correct? She has it in her will that she wants it all to go to her son and we all know this, but what will happen if she marries? He won't stop jointly owning the house once she's died, surely? I am getting really concerned by his escalating behaviour.
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Mum marrying someone whilst terminally ill - family don't trust him. What rights does he have?
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sprinkletree · 17/11/2014 15:24
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