After months of messing me about saying he wanted to leave, then declaring undenying love for me, dh left 2 weeks ago.
He was deceitful and it turns out there is ow, though he is denying it saying they only started seeing each other after we split.
I know he is overdrawn and has credit cards in his sole name.
Part of the problem in our marriage was h couldn't stop going out spending money.
He has taken all bills etc including all details about our mortgage whcich he pays from his sole account.
Today i went to the bank to check the status of our mortgage and discovered that he has run up debts against it of £21,ooo. This is accruing monthly interest.
I had absolutely no idea.
As yet I don't have a solicitor, was intending waiting as there is so much I need to get togther as he is being difficult over everything, and I need to think carefully about what to ask in the initial free half hour.
If I can prove the spending was entirely his, then am I still liable to pay it back?
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Just discovered "d"h has run up debts in joint names. Where do I go from here?
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feelingvunerable · 22/07/2013 14:26
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