Hi, I've posted on here a few times, and as usual my XP is causing trouble again.
My XP has a contact order to see DS every week (he comes once a fortnight). I have always said that he can bring other family members, as long as he brings another adult if he brings his nephews to visit (I'm worried about an inexperienced XP looking after a lively 2 year old and other kids under the age of 5 - especially getting in and out of cars on the road etc).
He is now telling me I can't dictate who he does and doesn't bring on visits, and that I have to contact his solicitor if I don't want certain individuals coming. There's two things here - the first is that I have never said that there's people I don't want having contact with DS, the second is that I think that the contact order is solely between DS and XP, and that I don't have to be obliging and let anyone else join in the visits. Is that right?
Also, I'm only worried about DS's safety when I've stipulated an additional adult has to visit if the nephews are coming to see DS. I don't think it's unreasonable, although it's not stipulated in the contact order - who needs to see the solicitor - me or XP?!!
Thanks!
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chattymitchy · 04/01/2012 21:03
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