Apologies for long post but here goes.
Just under 2 yrs ago, after an accident which left me unable to work for over 6 months, I was in a sticky situation with money, and my lovely mum gave me quite a large sum to bail me out, six months later, after me becoming worried because she was forgetting a few day to day things, she saw a doctor, and was diagnosed as having early stages of Altzheimers. Since then, My brother and I have gained enduring power of Attorney, which she was deemed in sound enough mind to sign to say she agreed to this. Now my brother has looked through her bank statements and seen this money, and is saying that I took this money off mum when she was unable to fully understand what she was doing, and I have to pay the money back to her, or he would have to accuse me of fraud, and call the police and social services. I cannot pay the money back at present, Mum has told him it was gifted to me, and she didn't feel it was any of his business what she did with her own money, but brother has also support of my other brother, and they say she needed this for her care, and I was wrong to accept it. Mums Altzheimers is worse now, and she cannot remember exactly how much and why she gifted me the money, but she still says that she would not have done this for me without a good reason, and she still does not want me to pay her back, but, to be honest, she will have forgotten all this again tomorrow. Have i broken the law by accepting this money, as my brother says ( he is a policeman), and can they charge me with fraud on behalf of my mum, even if she has told them she absolutley does not want to bring any charges agains me, and he has no right to do so.
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suffolkworried · 16/09/2011 20:44
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