Hello,
I am 40 with 2 kids aged 9&6. For various reasons, all of which I am beating myself up for, I am 10wks pregnant with number 3.
I have been to the clinic twice already to have a termination but couldn't go through with it as I have had one before and it's a difficult experience.
I'm not working right now but this is recent as I contract, and was expecting to go into another contract.
ANYWAY, here I am stressing out of my mind as the thought of going back to those baby days is not at all appealing. All the financial concerns and loss of freedom, sleepless nights and years of tantrums are all I can think about.
However, my sisters in law are having babies when this would be due and I know that would be really hard. I love my kids and I know I would love this one.
My husband will support me either way but said our lives were getting very good and he would rather not progress with the pregnancy. He's very supportive though, he just wanted to be honest.
I feel so conflicted it's driving me absolutely nuts.
Anyone relate? Or can tell me how it ended for them??
Thanks :)
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Booked in at clinic tomorrow but still undecided about 3rd pregnancy
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yesnomaybe · 30/09/2015 18:39
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