I'm 30 next week, dh is 32. ttc over 2 years, male factor infertility. bfp from 1st IVF in Feb with 2embryos. mc at 5 weeks. mfi back in normal ranges at ivf fertilisation so had mix of icsi/ivf rather than all icsi. i had amh of 40 in jan 14 but from 11 eggs and 7fertilised we were only left with 1grade2 icsi embryo and 1grade1 ivf embryo by day 2. both were put bsck on day 2. one of the 11 eggs was fragmented and one wasnt mature enough. the remaining 2 just didn't fertilise. finally got our follow up appointment date for this month.
dh isn't keen to do ivf again due to the cost and lack of guarantee it would turn out any different. ultimately he would do it if I decide I want to go ahead with it. he's also not keen to adopt.
I've given 2.5years of my life to this journey already and I feel so defeated and hopeless. how do you know when its time to stop and accept a life without children? what should I be asking at the follow up appointment?
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lildottie · 08/04/2015 09:06
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