Ive recently started posting on these boards and am finding them so helpful so thank you for the support. Due to blocked fallopian tubes and DH having abnormal sperm, our consultant advised that IVF is our only option. Weve been trying for DC2 for 2 years now, and I dont understand how we could have conceived our DD with all of these problems.
We can only afford one round of IVF this terrifies me as so much will be riding on this one shot. Im also really struggling emotionally with all of this, and finding friends and family lack of understanding of what Im going through painful too.
I wanted to ask those who have been through IVF how they found managing work alongside treatment Im on a contract currently and to make a long story short, I have the opportunity to stay on at my company but in a different role. Ive been told Im allowed a maximum of 3 days off during a cycle, but mostly just unsure whether Ill be able to cope with all the emotions of it while looking after my DD (3) and managing work as well. My DH is very supportive and happy for me to take a break from working for a while (our DD starts school in September and well struggle with childcare as no family nearby and this school as no after school clubs, so there is a chance I might be looking for alternative work then anyway). I guess our thinking is that we want to put everything we have into this and I dont want to have to be stressed out about work as well.
For those that worked through IVF, can I ask how you found it generally, and how much time off you needed? Is 3 days realistically enough?
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Dealing with work while undergoing IVF
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CakeInMyFace · 08/01/2015 15:04
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