I'm usually posting in conception, but its a bit too fluffy and happy over there for my current mood. Not that I'm saying its all bitterness and misery over here obviously .
I've only been ttc for a year but in that time I've had just 1 cycle where I really felt like I had a chance of actually getting pregnant (I have a lot of trouble ovulating).
I've just got back from seeing my doctor (5th gp I've seen about infertility) and it seems I have to wait another 3 weeks for referral, because the other doctors missed out the day 21 bloods. I got angry, not at her but at everything, and then I got a bit teary. Very embarassing. GP completley failed to see what I was getting upset about; was I depressed? I just about managed to say that it wasn't just about getting pregnant, it was about my body being fucked up. Really didn't want to go into details because I knew I would start sobbing if I did.
My hormones are all over the place and I'm having these crazy mood swings. I have had bad period pains for 2 weeks now and yesterday, when I finally managed to get to cd 1, after finishing a 70-something days long cycle, the pain was so bad I felt like someone had repeatedly punched me in the stomach. I couldn't sleep last night because it hurt so much. Its a lot better today but my whole body is aching and I feel completely drained. I had to bin my pjs yesterday morning because I woke up soaked in blood and they were ruined. Which I know is a silly thing to get upset about but I am.
The messed-up hormones mean my face, chest and back are covered with acne. I can't wear anything with a neckline cut below my collarbone because it shows all the spots. One time I accidently wore a v-neck top to work because I was in a rush and my boss wanted to send me home because she thought I had shingles .
My doctor said that they're unlikely to be too concerned about my infertility at the fertility clinic because I'm only 24, it would be different if I was 41 . What the hell is the point of seeking help early on if no one is that bothered? If I waited until I was 40 I would get judged for 'leaving it too late'.
I have no one irl to talk to about this except dh. No one else seems to understand, not my mum, my best friend, even a colleague who I confided in because I heard she had fertility problems (she told me to go on holiday, relax and forget about it because thats what worked for her. She was trying for 1.5yrs, had very irregular cycles and ended up having non-identical twins - yeah fucking right did she just book a holiday and magically get pregnant).
I know I've only been trying for a year. And I'm only 24. And I know what the problem is and its easy enough to sort out. So I feel like a drama queen to rant here. But I really feel shitty today.
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I feel like crap. Mind if I rant on here?
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Trinpy · 02/04/2013 11:06
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