Ariane there are three IVF protocols, excluding "natural cycle" IVF that I'm aware of, but I've not heard of mild IVF.
There's a short and long protocol and an antagonist protocol, which is confusingly often called a short protocol because it doesn't take as long as the long protocol.
The antagonist protocol has been developed more recently than the long protocol, and many clinicians are set in their ways in the mistaken belief that the long protocol gives a better egg yield, or still strongly believe it's better and so I believe it might still be the most prevalent. It may well give a better egg yield but a recent Cochrane review found that the LIVE birth rate between the two protocols was not statistically significantly different. I guess this is because you need good quality eggs and quality doesn't necessarily correlate with quantity.
The advantage of the antagonist protocol is that the same Cochrane review found that rates of OHSS were statistically significantly reduced.
I know the clinic I'm with uses the antagonist protocol as default unless there are indicators to use an alternative protocol such as the long or short.
Down-regulation still occurs with the antagonist protocol, but an antagonist drug is used to stop premature ovulation rather than an agonist (as used in the long protocol). In the long protocol the agonist is introduced a couple of weeks before stimulation and throws your body into a sort of menopause. A full IVF cycle then takes roughly 6 weeks. With the antagonist protocol you start the antagonist drug to stop you ovulating on day 5 of stimulation (roughly day 7 of your natural cycle) and you start stimulation around day three of your natural cycle. This means a full cycle takes around 4 weeks.
From what I understand (but may well be wrong here), the disadvantage of the antagonist cycle is it's difficult for clinics to manage work loads and work flows as it totally depends on when women naturally start their period, which means some weeks might be super busy for clinics and some quieter. I understand it's difficult for smaller clinics to offer it, especially those that only run a five day service. Could be wrong there too.
I wasn't aggressively stimulated on the antagonist protocol - my clinic likes to get between 8 and 12 eggs - I know the doctor doing my first egg collection said more than 12 and they start to worry about the risk of OHSS.
What I don't know is if it can be used with a woman with PCOS - I guess it's impossible to predict day one of the cycle so have no idea how it might work or whether they can create an artificial day one. Also, I don't know whether stimulation is still mild enough and whether mild IVF is something completely different. All my clinic said to me was they didn't aggressively stimulate, but that could be very different to mild stimulation.
Anyway I've done three IVF rounds on the antagonist protocol. First cycle got pg but had an early m/c which I think was simply bad luck and nothing to do with the IVF. Third cycle got pg and am 11+1 with twins.
I guess it might be worth contacting clinics local to you and asking for more information on how they treat women with PCOS?