We are getting so may enquiries to our info link on our local HE website, I have now written a basic welcome letter that I can adapt and send out quickly to new home educators. I am posting it here-minus details of local groups that I usually send, to see if it is helpful to you TerrieB.
I'm Julie home ed mom to three. We deregistered our children 8 years ago.
We haven't had a single regret, not one in all those years, we have had such a fantastic life.
Our children came out of school eight+ years ago when they were then aged 13, 11 and 8. They all have dyslexia/dsypraxia and dysgraphia and their needs were unmet by the schools they attended.
We were actually appealing for a statement for our youngest when we found out about home education.
The following is my 'Welcome to home education in Worcestershire' letter-forgive me if I seem to be telling you things you already know.
There are many different ways to home educate.
Some families do 'school at home' -indeed the majority of home educators start off this way, upon leaving schools behind, but most become much more relaxed in their approach as they realise that home based education can be much more relaxed and based around the children's interests.
Some families are totally autonomous (including ours) where the children's interests are followed and the education is facilitated by the parents rather than taught.
Then there is just about every combination in between.
You see the choice of how to home educate is entirely yours. There is no set number of hours/subjects to cover at all.
Your responsibility in law is summed up in Section 7 of the Education Act where it says
The parent of every child of compulsory school age shall cause him to receive efficient full-time education suitable?
(a) to his age, ability and aptitude, and
(b) to any special educational needs he may have,
either by regular attendance at school or otherwise.
The how/why/when of it, is totally down to your choice!
I'd strongly suggest you have a look at some of the main websites about home ed to start you off.
Education Otherwisethe biggest HE charity. This website has very recently been revamped and contains all the info you need to know about the process of deregistration etc. The information is very up to date.
HE-UK is an excellent independent HE website owned and run by a home ed dad with great experience. He is also a journalist/publisher-and a researcher on home ed issues. This website also has all the legal info you need-and an excellent page of 'Articles' that I really recommend (especially those on Deschooling and Home Visits}
Both of the above websites have links to home ed support lists.
Muddle Puddle is an excellent website for families who home educate children under 8 years old.
They have an affiliated Early Years Home Education email support group
Home Ed in the UK is another excellent independent website, full of links to resources and ideas. Owned by a home ed mom who educated her lads all the way through their teen years.
Home Education-Special Needs and their
associated email support group The knowledge support and advice available on that list are second to none-freely given by the real experts in this field, parents who are home educating their SEN children.
and there is also a Home Educating Single Parents email support list that I am sure you would benefit from -lots of support there from parents who have been where you are right now!
There are also some books I would recommend you have a look at:
'Free Range Education' edited by Terri Dowty
is a book where families each wrote a chapter about how home ed works for them. There is also a chapter by a home educating barrister, giving the legal info etc. A jolly good place to start IMHO
Terri Dowty also co edited a book especially written for families interested in home educating children with SEN
'Home Educating our Autistic Spectrum Children; Paths are made by walking'
Alan Thomas is Visiting Fellow at the University of London, Institute of Education. He is a Fellow of the British Psychological Society. His has been looking at informal home education or 'autonomous home education' as it is called in the UK. In his latest book
'How Children Learn at Home'
he has followed up on previous research and looked at autonomously home educated young people and discovered how amazingly effective it is. Well worth a read (although I am biased as my family took part in this research)
'One to One: A Practical Guide to Learning at Home Age 0-11' by Gareth and Lin Lewis
may be very useful to give you a starting point.
There is also
'Unqualified Education :A Practical Guide to Learning at Home aged 11-18',
also by Gareth Lewis.
If you join the charity Education Otherwise, you'll get a copy of the book
'School is Not Compulsory'
again well worth the read. You will also get a contact list of families who welcome contact from others.
I could go on and on. Many people would recommend you read anything by John Holt, and I wouldn't disagree,
but my personal favourite inspirational read
is
'The Teenage Liberation Handbook:How to Quit School and Get a Real Life and Education'
Written for teenagers, this is the book that really showed me the freedoms that home education can bring!
All of these books can be ordered fro the library or can be obtained on Amazons 'new and second hand'
Resource wise, you can spend as much money as you like. We are on a very limited income as my hubby retired from working as a Nurse Teacher some years ago, on the grounds of ill health and I changed my career path to work very part time around his needs and the children's education.
We get all of our resources free off the internet and Freecycle or from charity shop/car boot sales/Ebay!
We go along to workshops organised by other home ed parents and use libraries/art galleries etc when they are empty of schooled children.
Does that go some way to answering your questions?
The other thing I would strongly recommend TerrieB is that you find other home educators local to you. I'll bump the thread about doing so for you right now, and also the threads about deregsitering and the ones with more books and websites on HE