I imagine a HE parent's parenting skills need to be average to superb, given how much time parent and child will spend together.
I get on a roll with DS and we have days at a time that are fun-filled and there's a mutual respect there and everything ticks over nicely - and then other times when it all goes to pot. There are times when DS's temper flies - very fiestily - and I truly don't know how to handle him, and I walk away into a different room or else react back. DS has behaved embarrassingly badly on a few occasions in the company of friends, and I have felt certain it's seemed as though I'm doing a useless job. While he can be assertive and confident, DS seems to have a fear-of-abandonment issue lurking not far below the surface, and I can pinpoint the few hiccups that may have fed into this along the way. When I look at the unit that is DS and I in this light, I feel sad and as though HE could never really be a healthy option for us.
But then I think that no parent is perfect, and that there are many times when we have it sussed. Are my glitches just part and parcel of average parenting - finding ways to deal with the challenges as they come at you, and sometimes getting that (badly) wrong - or does it sound like I don't have enough of a handle on raising my son for us to HE?
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Feel like my general parenting might not be good enough to HE DS (4)
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Choctastic · 21/09/2008 22:35
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