ARRRRRRRRRRRR SOME1 PLZZZZZZZZ HELP

[tjgx]

Hi all i really some needed advice..i will try n cut a long story short..i moved away from london 6 months ago due to domestic violence..plus my dds was bullied something awful at school..1 is 13 1 is 14..the 14 yr old got involved with a nasty crwod they made her think they wwas her friends.but was setting her up..she got jumped by a gang of 16 girls n my 13 yr old was forced to the floor and made to watch what these animals did to her sister...they repeatdly punched and kicked her, she had to go to hospital but luckily escaped with a few brusies n busted lip...so i moved here for a new life.for us all..my 14 yr old i thought would never attend school again was extremely brave and started a new school along with her sister...she is under counselling her self confidence is gone,she has awful panic atttacks n thinks about killing herself alot..but she decided she was willing to give it a go she got her options so its what she wanted..she is in an support area in the school as she is struggling to mix with kids due to what happend to her which is understandable,but my 13 yr old is haveing an awful time kids are bullying her cause she is new,,saying stuff like o u think ur hard cause ur from london watch we will get u n show u..she has had msgs passed to her saying this girl wants to fight her..u better watch ur bk.so she is refuseing to go in,my 14 yr ol has hair n beauty as her options n there is a small gang of girls in this lesson..who are making nasty comments to her also..im really at the end of my tether n dont know what to do for the best..13 yr ol wants me to he her n i havent a clue where to start or what to do i left school at a very young age..n ended up with nothing no gcse nothing...how can i teach her when i know nothing,im not very good im being onest..plz help me as all this is starting to affect me i feel so low x

[EllieK]

talk to the school, the doctor, anyone, just talk to someone who has the power to help you out of this x

[WriggleJiggle]

Could you go and discuss the matter with the head / head of year / tutor?

[Whizzz]

There should be a member of staff at the school whose role includes dealing with this sort of stuff (Pastoral support / SENCO-Special needs co-ordinator) - ring up & ask who this is & can you have a chat with them. They will be able to give you some advice about the steps can be taken & what both you & the school can do to help.
Th school should also have policies & procedres in place to deal with bullying. Hope you get it sorted out

[tjgx]

dr has helped dd has counselling,school are fully aware n have done nothing apart from getting education welfare involved!! they have spoke to the bullys but they continue to do it.then have a go at dds saying u fking grasses watch ur fkin bks..ive only just found out it was one of the worst schools i could have put my dds in to.

[juuule]

Please look at
\link{http://www.education-otherwise.org/Education Otherwise}and contact them for information and advice. In your position I would get my children out of that school. It doesn't sound a safe place for them to be.
You can also ask for opinions on
EO at yahoo
Post what you have put here and you will receive plenty of advice from people who have been in a similar postion.

Have confidence in yourself. You say you know nothing but you will find that you know a lot more than you think and you can also learn alongside your daughters. Please look at the links I've given where there are people who can give you the information you need much better than I can.

[juuule]

Sorry - link for Education Otherwise here

[tjgx]

hi thanx so much for that link juuule x i need as much info so if you have any other sites plz let me know,my dd can do alot of work from the comp which is so good.but sadly printer is broken and im unable to print off anything,would really appreciate anyone who could print off some really good things for her to do,n maybe post them to me i would pay postage,so anymore help any1 i would be sooooooooo grateful n once again thank youxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[tjgx]

hi guys could some1 plz also tell me what happens if you home ed and exams n all that stuff!!