Just had the most awful Skype to my DD who is in Berlin as part of her year abroad. She's been complaining of feeling homesick the last few days. Her 2nd year at Uni has been awful as she has had a fairly serious bout of depression for which she's now been on medication for a year. She's been in Berlin since early September and seemed to have turned a corner and was making progress and there were signs of the old DD. Tonight though she Skype d me and frankly looked shocking - she looked exhausted and like she'd not combed her hair today. Her boyfriend is out in Germany too and she's stayed there since the weekend and hasn't been to lectures at her Uni there the last two days. I think she just wanted me to say come home but I am due to go out to see her in 2 weeks for 4 days and then it's only a week until she comes home for Christmas. She had been told she could be exempt from her year abroad due to her health issues but she wanted to go as she said she would feel like she'd cheated her way to her degree. So, now I don't know whether to try and get her to limp through until Christmas and then we can reassess whether she should go back or not. When her depression was bad before she would worry me silly one day and then be different again the next day but this is so much more scary with her being so far away. Has anyone had a similar experience that can offer any practical suggestions as to how to get through this one. TIA
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