Not sure this is the right place to post this but here goes!
I'm applying for a degree with the OU. It's in Computing and IT with a view to become something along the lines of a web developer or similar. I want a career to help us in the future so I can earn enough to help us buy a house, move on to have kids together etc etc.
To avoid drip feeding, I have a 4 year old due to start school this September. OH and I live together with DS. OH is SD to DS and DS bio dad is working in the forces and helps out with money for his DS each month. Rarely sees him due to work and other issues so can't rely on him for childcare really.
I really really really want a degree. I know I can do it and I don't consider myself to be a complete failure intelligence wise (although I'm getting there) but it's hard to keep up with the confidence when I come across battles even with the registration.
I also have some mental health issues. I have GAD (generalise anxiety disorder) and mild depression which had improved with CBT but since stopping that has probably started to go back (although I'm fighting not to go back there).
My main 2 questions regarding all this are:
- Is there anyone else who is doing OU (any of the courses) with a kid and have found that is does/doesn't work for them? What are your experiences?
- When I am asked what support I will need for my mental health issues... will I need any? What can the OU do that will help regarding this?
I've chosen the OU because I can start sooner and I wouldn't have to leave the house quite as much if I had to do this at one of the Unis near me. I figured it would take some of the pressure off whilst I am building up my resilience to certain social situations and if I do end up having a breakdown of any sort, it will be far less public.
Any advice please? Many thanks hopeful