Hi all,
My daughter is in her first year at uni and at an initial assessment (due to her struggling in the Economics element of her course) has just been told she may have Dyslexia, Dyspraxia and Dyscalcula.
She is due to have a formal assessment with an Educational Psychologist this Saturday.
Having spoken with the woman who did the initial assessment, she tells me that even with the additional help my DD will most likely be offered, it is likely that she will really struggle to complete her course, as she belives my DD is severely affected. Her words were - she is an adult, needs to make her own decisions, and uni may not be for her.
My daughter called me to tell me last week that she had achieved a 2.1 in one element of her course and was absolutely over the moon about it.
The day after, having had this meeting, she has decided she wants to leave university. Immediately.
I think her confidence has been hugely knocked. She wasn't enjoying her course at all and kept telling me that she felt stupid but i honestly feel that she has come SO far without any help, surely a change of course and all the extra help will be life changing for her??
She says she wants to come home and get a full time job for a year but i fear she will struggle to do this (she has failed many times to get even a part time job - apart from some bar work).
I am posting this because i am so so disappointed that she has been through the education system (even having Maths tutoring to get her though her GCSE's by a teacher who actually works at a school for dyslexic children), and it's not been picked up!
I feel guilty because i always knew her written work was questionable, yet she managed to get her GCSEs and an excellent level 3 BTec in Dance, equivalent to three A* A levels.
She was offered her uni place unconditionally and i just feel that now this has happened, she is in danger of falling through the net.
She is not the most motivated person in the world and has always needed a lot of support getting her to the next stage but she has always thanked me for it in the end!
I just don't know what to do! I'm told her assessment will highlight her strengths and weaknesses - perhaps this will give her the boost she needs to carry on trying?
I am at a loss and any advice would be so very greatly appreciated.
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Jennie1 · 10/03/2016 12:08
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