there is a possibility that my old job is up for grabs and I have been asked if I want it. I haven't worked for over 4 years and I have loved every minute at home with the kids. It's been hard work but as my dh has a very demanding job, it has been easier on us all as a family to have one parent at home.
The problem is this situation cannot continue for ever. Financially, we need my income and also, from a professional point of view, I need to return otherwise my qualifications will be too out of date (I don't want to give away my job but it requires articles, exams and lots of continuing education).
The problem is two fold - first of all, I am absolutely terrified to go back to work - I'm worried I won't cope especially with being told what to do as I haven't had that for years and secondly, I'm worried about the impact it will have on our marriage. Last time I worked, dh drove me mad because he did not pull his weight at home, was zero help with the childcare and generally was a right pain in the ass. If he was like that again, I don't know what I would do. I asked him about it and he seemed to think that the last time I worked, everything was fine!
I know I'm going to have to accept (there's no way I could get another job that would pay as well and we need the money to cover the cost of a nanny) but I am filled with dread as to how it will change our life as a family
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haven't worked for years and I'm absolutely terrified about returning
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workworkwork · 26/07/2005 12:47
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