I'll try to keep it brief, but it's not my strong point!
I live in Switzerland. i have ds1 who's 5 & just started Kindergarten. Although we have lived here 4 years, ds1 started at Kindergarten last month with very little German & that saddens me.
I didn't want ds2, who's nearly 4, to start Kindergarten next August also with no German, so I arranged for him to go to a creche. The only do full days, but I thought for language developement this would be better than a couple of hours. He also goes to a playgroup for a couple of hours on Thursdays.
Anyway, he started last month so has been 4 or 5 times. the last coiuple of times he's cried & says it's too long, plus he doesn't like haveing a nap (they all have 2 hours sleep, but ds stopped his day time nap 2 years ago!) Anyway I spoke to them & they agreed he didn't have to nap but just look at books/play quietly during the nap time.
Today he was hysterical & sobbing he didn't want to go - it's too long. It was truly heart breaking & I feel trspped. He doesn't need to go _ I'm at home & happy to have him with me. Like I said the reason I got the place for him was because of the language.
The contract is for 3 months written notice. I can't pay for 3 months & him not go, it's really expensive. Everyone else (kids & poarenst) speak very highly of it & I'm sure it's a nice place, but I've never left one of my kids for a whole day & I feel very unhappy & trapped. they said stuff like maybe I can astay with him or collect him at 2 or whatever, but I also have an 11month old who need to have naps & ds1 comes starts his Chindsgi at 1.30, so it's all too much hassle really.
Any ideas? He was really full-on sobbing. I feel thoroughly miserable
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ds hates creche - but 3 month notice period major guilt
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monkey · 19/10/2004 09:12
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