Hello! I've been back at work from maternity leave for a few months now and am struggling to know what to say when special events crop up. My normal hours are 9-5 and I drop my daughter at nursery at 8:40 and collect her just after 5. Every few weeks (sometimes less often) there seems to be a meeting, conference or event miles away which involves a very early start (e.g. leaving home at 6am) or overnight stay, which means I can't do the nursery run. My boss is very good about leaving it up to me whether to participate or not, so there isn't too much pressure, but I feel bad about having to say no to things which I probably would have gone to before. But If I do go, then I have to ask DH to take a day off (as his working hours aren't compatible with nursery and he can't work flexible hours) or try to get a family member to do the nursery run for us and look after DD for the extra time while I'm away. She's almost 18 months now and doesn't cope very well if I'm not there at night, so I usually avoid overnight things if I can. I'm trying to do my best at work but don't really know what line to take on these extra events. So far I've just gone to the really important ones and missed the rest, but it's always a dilemma and there are quite a few coming up at the moment. Would love to know what others do in this type of situation! Thanks
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Coco12345 · 14/01/2015 13:02
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