Hi wise MNers,
I'm starting a new job in January - a good job with a good organisation but I'm struggling with guilt. I've been working 4 days since going back to work and in a job that I haven't really cared about so it hasn't demanded my attention or any extra time, so have had plenty of time with DD (17mo). It's likely this new role will be a bit more all-consuming and I'll also probably have to travel a bit.
I had to move on from my last organisation as I wan't feeling fulfilled and have realised that career is very important to me. But am also having that feeling that you really can't have it all and I'm now swinging the other way and comprimising DD for my job. I do know other women who work 5 days a week but I also know a LOT of women who don't. i guess I'm looking for a bit of reassurance and maybe some coping strategies for working 5 days. (Will get cleaner obvs).
Also am looking for people's experiences of taking a new job and getting pg soon after? I'm 37 and really want another DC before DD1 is much older. But obviously am aware that it's not very professional to take a new job and get pg straight away! I know some people will think that I should have just stuck with my old job if I wanted another baby but I'm interested to hear what others think?
Sorry, this is a bit of a ramble but any wise words would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks fwm x
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fuzzywigsmum · 18/12/2012 17:38
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