Had it as a child, grew out of it, last year I kept going back to to the GPs with a horrendous cough I couldn't shift. Practice nurse informed me it was an asthmatic cough she's sure she could hear and prescribed me inhalers. All fine and when caught a cough or a cold, increased my inhalers and carried on my way.
This year however, whenever I get a really bad cough, it floors me, first time, I ended up in a & e a couple of times before I was taken seriously, because i was effectively one of 'the walking well' , I was dismissed until it turned into a real emergency (critical care the lot were called down). Couple of days in hospital on the right treatment and I was back to Normal. I had a respiratory nurse come out to visit me and got told (I'm 30) "but you're too young to get ill"
Nothing else happened until the summer when I came down with a head cold, started taking cold & flu tabs etc and was still taking my inhalers. All I remember is laying down to sleep one night and literally not being able to breathe. I rang my aunt who rang the paramedics as all she could hear is me wheezing down the phone. Paramedics said we'll run you down to get you checked over. We aren't worried because your 02 says are ok. (My DD has bad asthma so took this to be a good sign). Great. I'll be back home in a few hours time then I thought. Not so. The minute the A&E doc took one look at me I got rushed into resus and spent a couple of days on HDU and then 4 more days in another hospital before being let home.
Nothing else until last month. When again. A virus set my asthma off. They insisted on keeping me in because of the last Resus/HDU admission and again spent a further week in hospital. Everytime this happens they refer me to an asthma clinic outpatients and every time I attend the appointment I am discharged. Going back to the resus incident - the HDU doc changed my inhalers and said that this time they'd get me proper help and I'd be referred to a proper resp consultant before they discharged me. On the 3rd admission they said they'd got no record of that referral being made.
Obviously with it being winter now, I'm picking up viruses left right and centre. Yesterday. The paramedics were called as I couldn't breathe. The Nebulisers' they gave me weren't helping so they took me down to the resp ward. Before we even got out the ambulance. The Paramedic made his colleague stop whilst he put me on oxygen. Got on the ward. The nurse took me off the oxygen. Doctor came round. Gave the nurse a bollocking for taking me off it and ordered steroids antibiotics bloods and an x ray. Alongside regular nebs. I informed the nurse I couldn't take steroids without omeprazole as it made me sick. She gave them me anyway and then wondered why I was sick. Can I just put a disclaimer in here? All you nurses and docs are amazing and do a fabulous job but this nurse is the very same nurse who refused to give me any meds or nebs the last time I was admitted and then left wondering why she had to call a critical care doc down for me five minutes before her shift had ended! I am partially deaf so a lot of people assume I can't hear anything. That day I remember the sister stood yards in front of me and said "she don't NEED any. Its just her anxiety". I needed IV Magnesium that night as a result of my 'Anxiety' .
Going back to yesterday. The nurse couldn't do my bloods after one try so said they'd get the doctor to them. The doctor never rematerialised due to an emergency in another bay (fair enough).
Come up from x Ray, a new doctor comes in to see me. "good news your x-ray is clear so you can go home now".
I'm not very good at being assertive in these situations especially when I'm mainly focused on breathing. I still feel really bad today and my friend is taking me back down to the walk in centre as the hospital sent me home with antibiotics and a steroid card but no steroids. By the time I'd realised it was too late as my Dad who was running me about (I dont drive) had already left for work by then.
Has anyone been through a similar situation? I just don't know where to start in being more assertive and getting help for myself in these situations without coming across as an arse.
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Feeling frustrated & unsupported (sorry this is long but advice welcome).
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AwaywiththePixies27 · 12/11/2016 08:03
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