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Just been speaking to my dad who is rather worried about my mum. She is 70 and has been having violent, long-lasting dizzy spells that leave her bedridden, sometimes for as much as half a day. She seems to struggle to eat (she vomits) and has lost loads of weight.
Mum has COPD. She has had a persistent cough for as long as I can remember but refused to see a gp about it for around 20 years. She smokes - worryingly she doesn't know how many - and refuses to stop. Or even entertain the idea of stopping.
She has tried numerous medicines (the whole gamut of medication for diseases such as labyrinthitis), which work to a degree but not really offering any relief. Years ago an MRI revealed small vessel ischaemic disease. I recall that was it as I hadn't heard of it so read up. Following that diagnosis she was told to quit smoking and improve her diet. Neither of which she did. She cannot remember being told about the SVID and gets aggressive with me when I try to talk about that, or any aspect of her health.
I am really quite worried. She has to be virtually dragged to the doctor. The COPD means she get numerous chest infections and she has to be fighting for breath before she'll go. Dad is an elderly man (mid 80s) and although he is actually in remarkable health, I can tell he is worried and that makes me worry about him, too.
Not that she would take anything on board, but does anyone have any suggestions!
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ibeanamechanger · 25/03/2015 21:15
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