Hi there M & M (lazy!)
Saw your post on the other thread misdee. Hopefully you're feeling more positive today. Fantastic if peter has made it back onto the list. Its a funny old life being pleased about going on the transplant list, but YKWIM.
Hope it makes you feel better, not worse to know that my Peter is well - perfectly normal now, in fact probably better as he is so happy and also doesnt have to think twice before he does anything now, he just does it. He has loads of medication of course for ever, but he is feeling v good at mo. In fact we both have to keep reminding ourselves that it really did happen, its all like a (bad) dream now. The change is amazing. Of course it doesnt happen like that for everyone, but hopefully with your P being young, he will be lucky.
Rambling now but...its only when we go back for his check-ups that it all comes back to us. More so for me than him as I was the one travelling all the time, he only saw it from an ambulance. It did get to be a routine and I almost missed it in a funny way when I didn't have to go anymore (the routine journey and seeing him in hospital and talking to the staff all the time was a kind of comfort blanket IYKWIM).
Peter is madly spoiling the kids with things now, to 'make up for lost time' and also 'cos I don't know how long I've got' which is v pragmatic of him. Anyway he's enjoying life.