We have just had an assessment visit from a sw for a fostering agency. Cannot believe the number of hurdles and obstacles in the way is it the same for all agencies. Eg.
1 we are having some work done on the house. They will not even begin the process until the work is finished. We thought we could go through the process and betray to foster and the work will be finished probably at more or less the same time with a final house check before a placement.
- We can't have a child under 5 until the house has been smoke free for two years.
- We are unable to both have a glass of wine at the same time.
- If a child is upset and crying NOT allowed to cuddle them
- Do we have a ccj or debt, must get this cleared first
6 the house must be practically a show home.
This is all before she told us that the children are basically all damaged, violent and will not sleep, toilet properly and will smash up the house
Do they want people to foster?
Can anyone out there tell us what it is really like, the process, the children and how they do things once accepted.
We will look at another agency and local authority.