pearlywhites I'm guessing you are in the USA, maybe their system is different to ours.
As foster carers our LA pay us a basic allowance for the child in our care. Our LO goes without nothing he has lovely clothes, toys, food and goes to lots of after school activities like music club, swimming and beavers all of which come out of the allowance. Some of the allowance is allocated for household expenses and like lovesmileandlaugh we can live without it but why should we?
We undergo long and extensive training unpaid and then we love, care and advocate for children who are often very damaged and traumatised by their life experiences. We are not childminders and I do not mean that in any derogatory sense at all. The work we do is very specialised and requires a lot of sacrifice, commitment and hard work. The paperwork is never ending and don't get me started on the amount of professional meetings that we have to attend again all unpaid. For us and I believe most foster carers what we do is a vocation and we do it for the right reasons so why shouldn't we get some recompense for it? Is anyone suggesting that no care workers should receive financial support for what they do? Why should we be any different because we are foster carers.
There is a huge disparity in this country between foster carers who work with the LA and those who work for IFA's and indeed huge disparity between LA'S. IFA carers are paid a living wage and we aren't, some LA's pay retainers many don't. It seems money is a dirty word in many LA's and until the huge disparity in money between LA and IFA carers is addressed openly and fairly you will continue to see large numbers of LA carers walking away from something they adore doing because they basically can't afford to live without a placement.
Our LA doesn't pay retainers for carers without a placement. We currently have one permanent placement and approval for 2 more. We have the possibility of taking 2 more children in the near future but for me to do this I would have to give up my very secure part time job. That's fine for the 3,6,12 months they may be with us but what then? If at that time there are no placements I would find myself in the position of having to seek employment again 1) for financial reasons and 2) I'd go stir crazy with nothing to do!