Last year I moved on a 2 year old boy who'd been with me since 1 day old. We went through some tough times and were consequently very attached as a family when he went to his adoptive family.
Intros went very well though, his new family are lovely and we all got on great. Or so I thought. They were adamant that they wanted to keep in touch even though I gave them every opportunity to say this wasn't what they wanted - I do like to keep in touch but have always been understanding of other families who wanted to move on.
It's now been almost a year since little boy moved to them. We sent him both Christmas and birthday cards and presents (nothing big, just a token gift) but didn't even get an acknowledgment that they'd been received. Is this their way of saying to leave them alone???
I'm tempted to leave well alone incase all isn't going well but my ssw has brought it up at our past three supervision visits and thinks we should be pushing for some sort of meet up, for little boys sake as well as ours so he doesn't think he was just abandoned.
The sooner they write the post adoption visit into the intros plan the better! That way everyone will know where they stand.
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Thenappyfairy · 25/09/2012 17:47
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