My husband and I have recently started thinking about becoming foster carers. I'm 26 and he's 27 and neither of us have had any kids, in fact our only experience of parenting has been babysitting the children of friends and families, which is obviously nothing like actually parenting! So that's my first worry...
My second worry is that we would like to start our own family before too long, and that opens up a whole load of other questions for me -
How would a foster child feel about the arrival of a bio child?
Would we even be allowed a foster child in these circumstances, as I've heard LAs like the foster child to be the youngest in the family?
Would we be able to cope with our first newborn as well as a foster child? (My head says yes - after all many parents are coping with babies, toddlers, teens, etc all at once...)
I feel like we might be being very naive, but also feel that foster carers are needed and since we have the basic resources (time, family support, financial, and most importantly desire) to look after a child maybe it's not such a crazy idea?
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bamps33 · 24/11/2011 16:35
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